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We’ve all been stuck. What matters is what you do next.
Stuck or
Behind
No
Routine
Bad
Habits
Low
Drive
Lonely
Avoidant
Results that stick

Your journey with us
Get matched with a team
Meet weekly in-person
Learn, grow, thrive
More than mentorship.
A personal growth system.

For Men Who Feel Stuck
Science-Backed Curriculum
In-Person Accountability
Skills & Career Focused
Practical, Not Therapy








Meet your coaches

Alex Milligan, 31
What he needed wasn’t more advice. It was structure, accountability, and a group of peers to grow with. Over time, he found his way, but it was a slow, painful, and lonely process. His story isn’t rare.
I started Momentum to build the program he, and so many others, never had. We’re here to help young men rebuild not just their habits, but their belief in who they can become.
Dr. Jeff Chen, 36
What no one tells you is that doing hard things never really gets easier, you just get better at doing them. It’s a skill like anything else. You learn to keep showing up and to move forward even when motivation fades.
That’s why I coach. love helping young men find clarity, build conviction, and realize they’re capable of more than they’ve been led to believe. To do the work is hard. But so is staying stuck. And one of those actually leads somewhere.


Dilan Shah, 32
Coaching hits the same dopamine switch. I help young men jailbreak their routines, swap doom-scroll loops for daily wins, and ship better versions of themselves in real life. Momentum supplies the code; I spotlight the bugs.
Hard things stay hard—until you fall in love with the reps. Master the rep, and the mountain shrinks to stairs. Let’s lace up, level up, and make momentum your default.
What's the curriculum like?
Building Foundations
We set the stage for your transformation by building strong foundations around mindset, mental and physical health, planning and accountability, and intergroup relationships. You'll:
- Learn how to set goals and track progress against them
- Establish healthy fitness, diet, and sleep habits
- Accept ownership of responsibility and adopt a growth mindset
- Build trust, accountability, and encouragement within your peer group
- Begin exploring career paths and technical skills
Learn Accountability and Skills
The second phase deepens commitment to personal growth by expanding habits, increasing expectations and accountability, and developing practical skills and career orientation. You'll:
- Build on fitness, diet, and sleep habits while incorporating mindfulness & CBT practices
- Explore career paths through informational interviews and career discovery exercises
- Begin developing technical and professional skills (with emphasis on integrating AI-tools) tailored to your interests
- Continue with mindset and values education, focusing on developing grit and resilience
Real-World Application
The third phase transitions from learning to applying habits and skills in higher-stakes scenarios, with a strong focus on career readiness. You'll:
- Apply technical and professional skills through shadowing and hands-on projects
- Prepare for job applications with resume building, interview practice, and networking
- Refine fitness, diet, sleep, and vice-avoidance habits to maintain peak performance
- Complete weekly challenges that build relational skills, confidence, and resilience
Launch and Thrive
Finally, we cement lasting change, helping you prepare for independence while celebrating your progress. You'll:
- Finalize career plans and complete job applications or entrepreneurial projects
- Reflect on personal growth through structured evaluations and peer feedback
- Create your plan to maintain habits and achieve long-term success
- Cement your initiation into independence, culminating in a team excursion and celebration
- Achieve agency and clarity to transition into a life of purpose
Frequently asked questions
It’s a structured, in-person experience that delivers deep behavioral change across health, mindset, habits, and career. It’s not a one-off program—it’s a path to a new life.
Momentum is designed for young men (18-30) who are struggling to transition into adulthood—whether that’s due to low motivation, social isolation, lack of confidence, career stagnation, or unhealthy habits. It’s for those who are capable but stuck, struggling to take responsibility, build discipline, and move forward in life. It’s also for families who have tried everything and want a structured, proven solution that actually works.
Momentum isn’t just a men’s group—it’s a structured, expert-designed transformational growth system that blends in-person coaching, skill-building, and accountability into a transformative experience. Unlike other groups, Momentum is: in-person, high-frequency, and long-duration (not just an occasional meet-up), led by accomplished, well-paid mentors (not just peers offering advice), backed by behavioral science and career development principles (not just vague self-improvement ideas), and focused on real-world growth in health, career, and relationships (not just emotional support or generic “men’s coaching”). Beyond structure, every mentee’s experience is personalized—mentors work one-on-one to tailor goals, adjust the curriculum, and ensure each young man is challenged in ways that fit his unique strengths and struggles.
Momentum is primarily in-person, with things like group coaching, workouts, and skill-building sessions happening in real-world settings. However, we also use online tools for tracking progress and staying connected between sessions. The in-person component is critical because it builds accountability, trust, and real social skills—things that simply don’t happen in an online-only format.
No, Momentum is not therapy, but it does integrate proven therapeutic practices—like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) principles—that help mentees reshape negative thought patterns and take control of their actions. While traditional therapy often focuses on analyzing the past, Momentum is about moving forward, building habits, and developing real-world skills. Our coaches don’t diagnose or treat mental health conditions, but they do help members cultivate healthy mindsets, emotional resilience, and personal responsibility—all of which are essential for breaking out of stagnation and creating lasting change. That said, for members who do need therapy, Momentum can complement it by reinforcing action-oriented growth.
Parents play an important but supportive role in the Momentum process. While the day-to-day work is done by the member and their coach, we believe parents should be equipped to reinforce progress at home. That’s why we provide parent check-ins and guidance on how to best support their son’s journey—without enabling old patterns or creating new friction.
Momentum coaches are high-achieving professionals with proven career success and strong personal values. Unlike other programs that hire underpaid, inexperienced coaches, ours are carefully selected for both expertise and character. Each coach undergoes rigorous training to teach the Momentum curriculum while also bringing their own life experience and wisdom to the mentorship process. Their role is not just to instruct, but to challenge, support, and inspire members to take full ownership of their lives.
Momentum cohorts are currently active in San Francisco, San Diego, Los Angeles, Austin, and New York City, with more cities coming online soon.